If I were her, I'd be miffed about the texting, but sounds like you are well and truly detached. As I read your account ,I felt sorry for her, but she's the one who left and wouldn't contact you. Wait and see. Take care. Aideen.
Me: 46 H:42 Together for 18 yrs, married 14. 3 children: 2 girls 13 and 10, one boy 7. Husband had affair, ended it and then decided on separation. Separated 08/2010