i think i answered alittle bit on your thread...all is good by me...son and i are doing great where we live, we have a tonnnnn of friends, had a great summer, im out all of the time and over H!....totally in love with the guy i dated seriously after H...but of course there would come drama on that end, we are broken up right now, but never really had a formal break up...he is going through a divorce as well, we got too serious i think for him and he freaked. i need to practice my divorce busting skills with him! lol...he has been stringing me along and of course i tolerate more than i should so now im attempting no contact and will see what happens, i really want to be with him when its all said and done. other than that, everything is great....i really do marvel at how well im doing and how i could go from where i was in that mess with my marriage and psycho mistress to where im at now. there is really is hope for everyone on this site, if their spouse comes back or not....if i reread where my thread starts, im very proud of how far i have come. took me longer than most, but u just cant force it.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09