How do I deal with now he's overseas?

[Piano]

Yes, that is an adequate description, Kimmee Lee.

I suppose in the long run, if he wants to be part of our child's life, I have to find a way to communicate effectively with him.

Also if I want his money, it's best we can work out an arrangement just the two of us, because now that he's overseas the child support agency will have trouble enforcing anything.

I can ignore this email.

and then with the next learn to communicate in a way that gets across what I require from him but that protects me emotionally.

I am a lot closer to nailing this than before.

still have work to do.