It's good to know that you can do things on your own, and not just survive but thrive. It's called growing up and being self reliant. I'm not being a meany John, it's just something I've had to learn through my sitch as well..and I'm nearly 10 years your senior, lol!
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369