Still hanging in there... FMV, can you tell me HOW you did it? Did you end it or OM?
It helps to know 1) I'm not alone, and 2) there are good men out there that have forgiven their wive's EA, and gone on to work on better marriage... I don't think it's all my fault, but I'm sorry for crossing the line with OM. It's a slippery slope.
I had been cheated on in previous R before M, so never thought I'd be in this boat. Ironically, OM would feel I'm cheating on him too... I really don't think he was looking for this. All my fault... .
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