he was back, i think

[mdoodles]

figured i would post an update, i havent been on here in a while so im not sure who is here to see my update but if anything, i may give some strength to the new people here (if you are new, read my entire thread)...

still not divorced but since i garnish his wages, financially im doing ok...

order of protection is up, my son now knows psycho, and he hates her! lol...my son also knows the "baby" and isnt too thrilled but all in all, we are all ok...

wow, i have come a loooooong way...funny, i forget there is even a baby...

as for H, well, he emails me every single day, only wanting my attention, as well as some one on one personal time (if u know what i mean!)....i think its hysterical now...look at him, living in his parents house, which is next to the house we used to live in which he let foreclose...living with his mistress, the baby and his parents. how fun!

i always knew he would miss me. and its great to see it every day in email form. even greater? im so not interested. not even a little bit. its amazing, isnt it?

i wrote him back and said, i waited years for u, i did everything to save our marriage and u left anyway. and now here u are back still wanting my attention? i dont think so. im over u and reopening this is not in my best interest...he cannot believe it so he keeps trying!

so to all of you out there who are suffering through an affair, it really takes time to play out, time to get over, and time to move on...and i guarantee, they alllllll come back!