I need time = I want to cake eat for longer until I have had sex, is that ok with you?
Seriously Pickle, you need to bring the hammer down on this... You confronted her, told her end the affair or leave
She asks for more time
You back down and hand it over?
Now she has zero respect for your confronting her... You need to stop letting her yank your chain and you need to put your foot down
Frank,
Did you really expect him 2 weeks in to do this perfectly?
Seriously?
IAP, good try bud. This ain't easy.
Is your coach JoAnn?
If you come from anger it's always going to be viewed as a threat.
However, you do have to follow through now or your W will learn that you now have another weakness to exploit.
Take a breather and follow the Do and Don't list. You've said what you said. You didn't pull it off correctly. However, you have stood up for yourself and she has noticed. Don't beat yourself up over it. Ok? It's not perfect, but it's not a catastophe either.
The Do and Don't list will give you actions to follow and it's a good plan for right now. In addition, start going to the gym/exercise and get out of the house now and then. Begin becoming mysterious, make her wonder what YOU are going to do next.
When you interact with her do exactly what the Coach told you. Also, you are trying to end the Affair, follow through in the next couple days and start bringing home boxes, don't bring anything up just bring em home and let her really see how serious you are.
I'm sure Robx and Starsky can help through the next steps.
