Phew! I'm glad I'm not the only one. My fear is that if you question them, you're almost accusing them in a way - like you're making them defend themselves against something they might not even be near feeling.
There's gotta be a way to word a question like that. Hopefully someone will pop by and share an idea or two with us.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.