thanks Spin free. Please let me know more about your sitch. I don't think I am mister nice guy tho. I am not afraid of my wife and I do know all that is going on in my family. I am very much apart of my kids lives. I will read the book tho, it does sound interesting. Maybe I am missing something. I do have to let go of the resentment tho, I think that is what is consuming me. I don't do thing just for sex. I think she should want me for me not for what I do. I do things around the house because I feel not everything should fall on her. Our work load are probably 60/40 with her doing more than me because she is home all day. help. With that said maybe I do need to make some changes because she isn't and things cannot stay the same.
