Sandi's Place

[Mike.4545]

Sandi,

Whenever you get a chance, I have some questions regarding your outlook/views of your husband, love for him, and marriage before, during, and after your situation transpired. If you could lend your input on these, I would greatly appreciate it!

-How did you view your love for your husband before, during, and after your EA?

-Did you really ever stop being in love with him? Or was your love for him always there but covered up deep down...masked by your feelings for the OM and/or long standing issues within your marriage?

-Did you ever think/believe that the love you once had for your husband was impossible to regain?

-What things helped get you to the point of being willing to work on your marriage?

-After deciding to work on your marriage, what type of things were necessary to rekindle the love you once had for your husband?

-From your perspective, can you comment on feeling before doing, vs. doing before feeling? Is that something you struggled with?

-Once it was all said-and-done, how do you compare your marriage now, to the marriage you had before everything started?

-If all the right steps are taken (time/effort) by both husband and wife, do you feel like they have a pretty good chance at reconciling and achieving a loving marriage again?

I know there are a lot of questions here...but if you ever have the time to detail your perspective of them it would be so very helpful!

Thanks so much Sandi!