Kat, it's true. The old me would have crumbled. I credit these boards and God. On my own, I would have never made it this far. I remember when I was dumped by a boyfriend only a couple of years before I met H (that I considered "the love of my life") how I begged, pleaded, did EVERYTHING wrong.
In hindsight, I would have been miserable with that guy--but just saying--this is how I handled this stuff before these boards.
There is a very handsome, very sweet young guy in my divorce and support care group that meets once a week about 25 minutes away.
I found out last week he lives literally across the street--I had no idea.
To further make my H nuts I am considering bringing up carpooling with this fellow to the meetings once a week. My friends think I am crazy and asking for a huge problem with H, but....even though I did get threatened a few weeks ago, it brought up a huge dialogue between us that wouldn't have happened otherwise. My H has been very, very different since finding out about "other guy" (who is not a factor any longer--he has moved to NC).
