So is there any reason why you're giving her cash like an allowance? Sounds like you're treating her more like a teenager than your W. It also goes back to more control issues.
She's going to do what she wants to do with the money you give her. Boundaries with consequences need to be enforced here but in a way that fits a husband and wife. Not husband and child.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
