Ok, So we have started the new routine, i am very skeptical about this. I have rear and re read my posts and the feedback I have recieved.
She has not broken off the relationship with OM, she said she wasnt ready to make the phone call. She thought she was, but when it came down to it, she couldnt do it. She needs to avoid him right now.
That was all i needed, I told her i would not invest anything else into this. She is free to do what ever she must, just not at my home. She is out and our current visitation schedule is in effect.
She thinks i am being too harsh. Like WTF, her time apparently is good enough for me in her eyes. She just needs a few days. I looked her in the face and told her a few days wont make a difference. She left her husband, family and home for this man. You cant shut those feelings off in a few days. She isnt able to make the decision to end that relationship to work on ours as she said she was. I will not be second choice and I will not live in an open marriage.
So she is gone to straighten her head out and I am back to my normal routine and my new life. My kids unfortunately have to deal with this too, but I have just kept it very low key, so as not to upset the kids too much.
