Should I say I love you? Part III

[gutwrenching]

Also she has to see a surgeon today. She's got a hernia and is going to need surgery. I'm hoping that will give us some time to bond since I will be caring for her for a bit.

DOn't count on it...been there, got the T-shirt. If OM is still in the picture, she will cake eat. She will use you to help get through the tough parts of physical recovery and go to OM for the emotional support. This is not something to get excited about.

What about her phone and turning off texts? What is the latest on that? If she is acting as if nothing is wrong, high probability she just got another phone (or OM bought one for her)...