I think you did just fine. He doesn't deserve your attention and because you're strong, detached and moving on in life he doesn't even register on your radar screen. If he makes a conversation your response is always short and cordial. He's not worth anymore than this.
The translation is exactly like the lyrics. You can't be jaded for life. Sooner or later most of us will fall in love again and we won't even know it or control it. Right now the wounds are too fresh so we freak out when anyone gets close to us and that's actually ok because as I said getting hurt twice sucks especially when you haven't fully healed from the first heartbreak. Say you had you met HG 3 years after your D I bet you wouldn't be having these conflicted feelings. I'm not saying you should stop etc just go slooow...holy cow that sounded like wii but since he seems to be on vacation someone's got to rain on your parade
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
