I know my friend and his EW don't combine practices if the kids are on your time .... it's your time. He sees them on his time. She sees the on her time.
Maybe time to draw that boundary so you are not subjected to that. I doubt Dan would say all that to a stranger. My EX feels the need to vent certain frustrations with me but I think he does not do this with other people. Stop it now. Tell him today and not while your in the situation that you don't want discussions like that with him. He needs to keep his thoughts to himself or tell them somewhere else. Your not his sounding board anymore..... plus is he Mr. perfect? Heck no! No one is. It's all about the fun of it that basketball.
What a ball sack!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too