Since your lady friend spent time at the hospital with you I have to wonder if your W somehow found out. It would explain her "need" for you again.
I hope it all works out for you. Just don't be so sure you know your W all that well. IMO the "I see you are trying so I unblocked you on FB" seems like she is giving you a treat for following her training program.
If you think this is real progress from your W then please get rid of OW. You will have NO shot with your W if OW is still present. Just ask my H how quick you will get shot down in that scenario.
This is the time for you to eliminate complications and not add them in.
