TH - at this point I feel like things are calming down. I'm hoping and praying they stay this way.

For once it feels like I'm in a sitch (now at least) that alot of other people find themselves in... regardless of how I got here. My W is starting to thaw, or so it seems. She doesn't NEED me to do any of the things I've done. She is capable and before now more than adamant on doing them herself. The sitch is (by my standards) drama-less but not drama-free.

Example being: fix the car, send a fax, her opening up FB again.

By the way, her text to me last night, which was out of nowhere, was:
"I see you trying. I unblocked you on FB."

I really wasn't doing anything other than giving her space, being nice and lovingly detaching and thinking a few steps ahead of the DB to do relatively humanly decent things (like copy off all the pictures or fix the car she is driving which is mine).

She's an acts of service kind personality. I'm trying very hard not to read into this too much, but it is very unusual of her when she doesn't NEED anything from me right now.


----"Et tu, Brute?"----
me:28 W:24 S4
T:6
M:4
EA Exposed: 5/21/10
Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day)
NC w/ OM: 7/10/10
W moved out 8/21/10
http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch