Well, the crap at school is really heating up. I knew it was a matter of time.

Last night was the monthly SB meeting. About five min after W left, the SB Pres called me and asked if I would be willing to come in and talk during the executive session. I asked what was going on and he said that W, super and W's new BFF were trying to get a teacher fired. This teacher happens to be one of the people who has been pretty vocal about improper conduct between W and super. W's BFF is the other v'ball coach who, until this year, didn't hang out with W or call much or was anything other than an acquaintance. This summer, she started taking the kids to her house to swim and play and they talk all the time.

Anyway, she was invited to the meeting to complain that the teacher was disrespecting the super in public during the b'ball tourney this weekend. Don't really know the whole story, but I will find out. The SB Pres. called it a witch hunt. During the meeting, W says that teacher is the one responsible for all of the "false rumours" about her and super and that she had seen teacher's cell# on my phone bill. The SB Pres said that he would call me and ask me to come in and set the record straight. They immediately started denying anything improper ever happened and I didn't need to be involved. Also, the teacher wasn't allowed to be at the meeting to defend herself.

So, next month she will be there to tell her side and I will be there to confirm the rumours and let everyone know that it is not the teacher causing trouble. This guy is a snake. He has half the board on his side, but they are only hearing what he and my W want them to hear. They assume all of the rumours are just that; rumours. The only thing I feel like I need to go in there and do or say is they are not just roumors. I want to save my M and keep my family together, but I can't take part in someone getting sacrificed and run into the ground to protect their secret. I have to face that my M is probably over and do what's right to help another person out who has done nothing wrong.

My God, what a mess. I never, ever thought it would go this far. I don't guess it's any worse that the astronaut driving with a diaper on across country to be with her lover. I have a month to be sure I'm not doing this out of spite or revenge or to run her name in the ground. I think it's the right thing to do. This is wrong on so many levels.


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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