I was told by a wise person - does it hurt when you do that? Then stop doing that...
Over and over again...great advice.
I like this advice!
There will be a time after enough detachment that you'll be able to have the occasional contact with her and it won't kill you or mess with your head. The sooner we accept that these people are not who we thought they were the sooner you can detach from them.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
