The next problem I'm anticipating is whether or not to go to the Winter Ball in December. The last time I went to a ball dance with my W, she had a terrible time. She complained she didn't dance enough, and that I was having too good a time without her. It made for a long ride home. Since that time we both have taken dance lessons to broaden our repertoire. I would like to go, but only if we can have a pleasant evening. The time before that, she wanted to leave after staying only an hour. One option would be to drive separately, so that she doesn't feel trapped, and I can stay.
She went to her smoking cessation class, without any reminders from me. She is planning on setting a quit date. She would like to have two acupuncture treatments, but we don't yet have the money. Maybe that's not my problem to solve. I wouldn't give her a hard time if she had the treatments done.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
