Sorry future. When you have kids with someone you are intertwined forever unless you don't care if the kids suffer.... Just the reality of the sitch:(
Yeah, but I'm surprised how little intertwining is necessary. An e-mail or text here or there, that's it. Very little face to face contact, or even phone calls, are required. I don't think it causes the kids to suffer any more to have such limited contact. It does maybe cost a little more money, for duplication of things we could maybe share if we were so inclined, but that's about it.
