No way, the advice given by the vets was spot on. As I did 10 yrs ago I was panicked when W #2 left. I was going to go back to old ways, begging pleading wishy washy. A couple weeks and plenty of 2x4's my self worth came back. I knew my W would wake up and see our relationship in a different way. I just had to back off and let it happen. And than when she did approach the door I dropped the D-bomb becuase she was having a short lived affair and I would not stand for it. It was hard but the guys here gave me the courage and stregth to pull it off. Keep plugging away RobX!
