I have an appointment with a lawyer today, my wife knows this and asked her if she wanted to commit to the marriage and be transparent, she said other than her passwords on everything she has been transparent, i told her i will not live that way. I asked her if divorce is what she wanted and she said I told you what i want and that is a seperation. I told her i am not seperating.

I am still torn up all to hell, she is willing to end a marriage and and seperate children from there parents over messenger accounts, Facebook and a cell phone.

How can that be a helathy marriage by her having those restrictions?