Yes be careful PB. My W is doing and saying all the right things and you have to trust that they are. We are getting me a key for her apt tonite and shopping for her S's wedding gift from "US". I saw her S the other day when I picked up his rent check for her and was playing with the GS and I said to him "I hope this is not too weird for you (fact that me and his mom are back together), and he said "it was wierd to think of you guys not together". That about says it. I am getting the ILY's and she calls me constantly. Still trying to work out the mortgage issue and she said if the house goes under at least we saved our relationship. That miffed me becuase she already has a place to live! Take it slow, see the Co. I still have to make another appoint. Enjoy each day!!