Today I meet with a Mediation L and with my stbxw. This will be the first time that I have seen her or spoken to her face to face since July 4th of this year. I feel like I have successfully detached from her and in fact really do not want to see her...she is but a distant memory to me. However, I need to rid myself of her so that I can pursue other interests. As Time often said "It's okay to let go" and I am truly content with that.
I came to this site as a complete disaster and over time with the guideance from many of you I was able to focus on what was important in a M and that is...me. I realized that DB'ing and GAL were all about making me happy, healthy, whole so that I can endure the trials and tribulations that lay a head. As well as bring into a new R/M a different perspective and strategies to prevent future issues.
I have changed quite a bit in the few months that I have been on this site. I am happier because I know that there is a great life out there and I am livin it! I have lost 95lbs and went from a 44/46 to a 34/36 and I am back doing cardio and weights...both help when you are dating And I know the jury is out regarding dating while M. Well unfortunately as much as I would want to work on my M my W does not appear a bit interested. So I think it okay for me to date...
I am not anticipating any fireworks in regard to this meeting, but I will hold my ground in the best Cary Grant style.
And I know the jury is out regarding dating while M. Well unfortunately as much as I would want to work on my M my W does not appear a bit interested. So I think it okay for me to date...