Getting REALLY messy... Shouldn't have gone dark with telling the OM I was going to do it... Now I feel like a double bad person. My confusion, even in this very brief EA (but long friendship prior) has now hurt somebody else:( and I've lost my friendship. Yuck, who knew online could be so real??? Now I'm sorry I went dark the way I did it. I didn't want to hurt ANYBODY... Ughhhhh