Thanks for reminding me about the Five Love Languages - I think I just figured out my date with the 34 year old! Of COURSE I was smitten - my love languages are Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch. So what did he do? Told me I was a "hottie" and kissed me in the parking lot for five minutes. Jeez, doesn't take much for me, does it??? (Of course, he was also megasmart and funny and very cute. And tall. But I think I'd best be a little more aware in the future of how susceptible I am to someone who speaks even a little bit of my love languages, and be a little more cautious - especially since he's not contacting me now.)