I see you are worried about what your H will think of your actions regarding the finances...if you care, all you need to do is remind him that this is just about you trying to survive with the kids and you can come right out and say that you aren't being vindictive and don't want to "take him for all he's worth."
you know? No mind games necessary or mysterious 180 actions- there is a time and place to speak the truth in a tactful way and be straight forward about it!
How are you feeling today?
oh and I don't know as much about MLC as you all do, but if he needs a rock bottom wake up call, nothing like depleting his bank accounts to help! (ok that was a little "tongue in cheek" of me!)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004