yep. that's right. plenty of examples of this in Divorce Busting. If they are moving on with their life move on with yours.
If they are carrying on with another person and rubbing it in your face, spending time with this other person and telling you they want a divorce, or have moved out and in with a new lover, those are pretty good indicators they don't want to be married to you. Learn to read what they are really saying.
The DB Coaches advice is excellent. Compete with this OM.
Compete with this OM. What does he have going for him? he's stealing another man's wife. be more attractive than him.
"I will not share my wife with another man."
That's attractive.
Do the Unexpected. Be their friend and move on with your life. You find out real quick there is nothing special about a cheating wife. The dating scene is saturated with them. You don't find out at first. It's kinda embarrassing to explain the reason you got divorced was because you had an affair. But that is reality. Not all of them are bad, but the one you are with doesn't want to be exclusive to you. "I will not share my wife with another man."
CHAPTER 7. MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY FOR A CHANGE.
While Your Spouse Decides: "On rough days, refer to what David, a Divorce Busting® family member, taught us about how he won back his wife. He now lives ecstatically ever after."
what did he do?
"I helped her move out by moving all of her stuff downstairs to help her to save money with the moving people. I loaned her money to help her get her new place."
"I gave her space and respected her choice to enter into a relationship with someone else."
"and supported her space, as a single woman"
He moved on with his life.
He doesn't go into what he did for himself. Probably got a new wardrobe, and a new car, went on a few dates with some interesting woman, probably had more than a few with lunatics, losers, and liars. But that's the key get yourself together and be the most attractive thing walking the streets and just be their friend.
