I need time = I want to cake eat for longer until I have had sex, is that ok with you?
Seriously Pickle, you need to bring the hammer down on this... You confronted her, told her end the affair or leave
She asks for more time
You back down and hand it over?
Now she has zero respect for your confronting her... You need to stop letting her yank your chain and you need to put your foot down
Confronting her with a end the affair or leave ultimatum has zero weight if you back off because she asks for more time...
You know what she's gonna DO with that time?
She's gonna KEEP cheating on you, she's gonna start a PA soon, she's gonna then go off the infidelity deep end and decide "i'm in love" and she will move out.
You had her on the ropes and you backed off.. why on earth would you do that?
If you have a spouse panicking because you confront them you keep up the pressure, you don't back off and hand your marriage over to her on a silver platter to toss into the garbage...
I guess I'm in the minority here, but I really think you need to give her a PROPER boundary and follow through if she wants to squirm out of it...
Would you put up with this in high school? Or would you follow through?
Why is it we LOWER our standards of a fully adult spouse to something we wouldn't tolerate in high school?
