New v.m. from H just now, "S18 is living in alleys, he called me this morning & sounds desperate. I don't know what you're going to do about it. Just so you know."

Nothing I can do to save him from himself. Made that error with both of them, making sure they escaped any kind of real learning opportunity.

Kat-Trying to right myself. Much better than I was a few days ago. I minimized the shape I was in last week. I just left the gym, where I avoided my neighbor. I'm sure they've witnessed all the police cars here again & I'm not yet ready to be asked how things are going.


Date of separation 4/23/07

DB under Warm&Sunny 4/07

married 9 yrs

sons 6yr & 17yr