No he doesn't. This has been going on now for... Decades:(. He tells me he lives me, is committed to our marriage, has never cheated, and he'd like to move back into the bedroom with me(many barriers that I've put up to that)-- many acts of service for me and our kids...
When we've had sex in the past (rare!) it's because I initiate which was also rare. We always had a high committment to each other because of our fatherless childhoods, but I guess I picked him for his Beta male qualities, not because of intense physical attraction that I'd felt for previous boyfriends.
So, we've had sex about 1x in the past 3 houses we've lived in... Been in this house for 10 years! Hmmmm... When we were having kids, I was more assertive because we wanted to get pregnant. Then, with pregnancies and babies's easy not to want sex... And a few sick/dying parents along the way. Most of our energy goes into parenting... But now they are almost college age and I want more.
I've always gotten alot of attention from more Alpha males, but when I got married I really wanted someone I could trust. Not sure if I should have made such a huge trade-off... 
