Well I talked to my wife again this weekend. Part of me now really feels like I have to just let her go and give us both space. We started texting and she threw out the, I just think we won't different things, which is fine that comment doesn't bother me. I didn't disagree or argue about it. We then got to talking on the phone and it just goes back to her depression. She talked about not wanting to get out of bed sometimes, feeling like she deserves to be alone, and that she deserves to not be happy. I validate and validate, but she doesn't have the words or know what to say except the same stuff over and over. I'm at a crossroads, part of me feels like the best thing for both of us is for me to just let go. She has to come out of this, I've listened and tried to help, but I feel like she is suffering with depression and as long as it is on going there's not going to be a thing to do to break down that wall. The only question I have is a small part of me feels like I'm abandoning her now when she needs help being pulled out of this. Overall though I diont think I can pull her out of this and unless she is willing to get help, she is just going to continue to sink until something or someone else comes along and she can repeat process.
