I am SOOO proud of you! I would not be as strong after what happened between the two of you the other night but it is the right thing to do for now. Don't get me wrong, I am not condemning you, you did fantastic if you are the kind of person that can handle it (which you appear to be)... I know my emotional limitations to a point and this would be one. I've literally started picturing my H as a squirrel when I see him... he is kind of hairy anyway. It makes me smile and back away. (which then makes him wonder why I am smiling)
Pat yourself on the back... and maybe get a massage in the next couple of days
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."