I am SOOO proud of you! I would not be as strong after what happened between the two of you the other night but it is the right thing to do for now. Don't get me wrong, I am not condemning you, you did fantastic if you are the kind of person that can handle it (which you appear to be)... I know my emotional limitations to a point and this would be one.
I've literally started picturing my H as a squirrel when I see him... he is kind of hairy anyway. It makes me smile and back away. (which then makes him wonder why I am smiling)

Pat yourself on the back... and maybe get a massage in the next couple of days smile


(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."