Thanks for the comments!! I don't think I will be taken on any additional wives soon. lol I have read some of the 5 love languages. I guess I should tell more of my stroy. I have been with my wife for about 19 years married for 14 years. the marriage R was great in the beginning and up to when we had our first kid. This is when things started to go bad. She seemed to get angry and upset all the time, after about two years things got a little better. Sex was still low but better again. When we had our second child things got bad again. The sex stopped we became distant and I emotionally withdrew. After a couple of years she came around and was trying to work on the marrige but I was resentful. After a while we did work on the marriage and things got better. The physical part of our relationship still suffered. The frequecy of sex was about once a month. We had a Third child and about six months later I found out she had a EA with a old friend and I put a stop to it. Needless to say it caused a lot of stress on our marriage. We seem to work through everyting and started working us again. This seems to be good again and worked through all the issues, but again sex is still maybe once a month. We have had a lot of talks about it. Staying up until 2:00 in the morning smoking cigerettes. I have told her how I feel and she is fully aware of it. She has said she just cannot get excited and her body does not work like mine. She does not wanna talk about it and we have not talked about for about sex month. Nothing has gotten better and I am at my wits end. I love her and my family and I could never leave. I feeled trapped and times. It consumes me! I told her she should see a doctor but she hasn't. I do not know if she is afraid or what? so much more to right and this is just a brief description but I could write a book. lol I am just lost!!
