I think, and I will probably get banned for saying this, that the problem is all about money!
None of the vets charge for their advice.
This website is here for the reason of getting people to sign up for DB coaching and to promote MWD.
Lets all face that FACT.
Anything that is posted that does not meet with that objective is not in the best interests of that company.
Although we may promote her books and DB'ing in general. We are also the "competiton".
Lets face it business is bad everywhere and sometimes hard decisions must be made from a business point of view.
I think the decsions being made here "just business" Unless we generate more profit for MWD we are all in line for getting banned.
Thats just my .02.
Lance, I agree with you. I noticed all of a sudden there is a thread promoting all of the wonderful advice the official DB Coach's have given going back to 2005.
My question is - just where were they - the DB Coaches - when we were keeping suicide watch on the poster a few months ago who was ready to end it (remember the golf pro)? Where were all of these coaches when people show up here SHAKING with fear, despair and heartbreak upon having JUST found out their spouse is having an affair? Where are these coaches when folks show up to ask for perspective about their court appearances and judgments?
Not a rhetorical question - where are they on this board?
And if they are not here, well then why muzzle anyone who wants to be here and is helpful here?
I think Lance's theory is correct.
Pity.
Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
I think, and I will probably get banned for saying this, that the problem is all about money!
None of the vets charge for their advice.
This website is here for the reason of getting people to sign up for DB coaching and to promote MWD.
Lets all face that FACT.
Right on.
And for a noob to have to try to look for them in addition to what they are going through........well....
Anything that is posted that does not meet with that objective is not in the best interests of that company.
Although we may promote her books and DB'ing in general. We are also the "competiton".
Lets face it business is bad everywhere and sometimes hard decisions must be made from a business point of view.
I think the decsions being made here "just business" Unless we generate more profit for MWD we are all in line for getting banned.
Thats just my .02.
Lance, I agree with you. I noticed all of a sudden there is a thread promoting all of the wonderful advice the official DB Coach's have given going back to 2005.
My question is - just where were they - the DB Coaches - when we were keeping suicide watch on the poster a few months ago who was ready to end it (remember the golf pro)? Where were all of these coaches when people show up here SHAKING with fear, despair and heartbreak upon having JUST found out their spouse is having an affair? Where are these coaches when folks show up to ask for perspective about their court appearances and judgments?
Not a rhetorical question - where are they on this board?
And if they are not here, well then why muzzle anyone who wants to be here and is helpful here?
My question is - just where were they - the DB Coaches - when we were keeping suicide watch on the poster a few months ago who was ready to end it (remember the golf pro)? Where were all of these coaches when people show up here SHAKING with fear, despair and heartbreak upon having JUST found out their spouse is having an affair? Where are these coaches when folks show up to ask for perspective about their court appearances and judgments?
Not a rhetorical question - where are they on this board?And if they are not here, well then why muzzle anyone who wants to be here and is helpful here?
I think Lance's theory is correct.
Pity.
Greek
I think this deserves an answer.
Everyone is here to help. I've never seen an instance that proves otherwise. I have paid my $400 for a DB coach when I didn't really have it. It helped, some. These boards have helped, too. Tremendously.
Rat OWN, Greek. Rat own, rat own, rat own, rat OWN!
Where Were You When I Needed You as Sung by The Grass Roots, The Bangles, and others (P. F. Sloan/S. Barri)
Don't bother cryin' Don't bother crawlin' It's all over now No use in stallin' The love I once felt I don't feel anymore for you This time I'll even Open the door for you
You walked out When I was down Well now I'm well off And look who's comin' around
Where were you when I needed you Where were you when I wanted you Where were you when I needed you Where
You're looking good It's hard to fight it There's no use explainin' I've already decided That livin' without ya Is worse than without ya I won't spend a lifetime A-worryin' about ya
Things got rough And you dissappeared Now I'm back on my feet And look who's standing there
Where were you when I needed you Where were you when I wanted you Where were you when I needed you Where
You were so young And you were so wild I knew you were nobody's Innocent child The first day I saw you You really got to me I thought I could change ya What good did it do me
Things got rough And I couldn't wait Now you're trippin' back But babe, it's too late
Where were you when I needed you Where were you when I wanted you Where were you when I needed you Where
