Hey girlfriend - sounds like you are doing good. especially going to a MC and talking about exposure to the OW. This is a hard core subject for me. You have little kids though and the transition into that new relationship might not be as difficult (I HOPE for their sakes)as older kids who totally understand what this OW represents (as my kids do). My kids flat out told their dad they never ever want to meet her, ever. My D12 told her dad that she would hate the OW forever and she hopes she disappears.
If my H and I are unable to make our relationship work, this is going to be a horrible step for my children to overcome.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
