I love it! Didn't even need to watch DH last night this was so interesting

Nah... As far as Cat Lady goes... No way at age 26 would I have pursued a married (albeit separated) guy with a 4 year old. I would have felt like a homewrecker, chasing this guy. I'd be friends and if a D happened then maybe, but NO... that's the reason you stay separated in most states for a year--to see if you can't make the M work.
Unless there is some really serious abuse going on... I stay away from married men, and keep Cat Ladies out of MY sandbox 