"The Mercury-ruled Virgo does not blend well astrologically with the Martian tendencies of Aries. Virgo natives are prone to fault-finding and will often prove to be far too precise for the Aries personality. Where Virgo will be logical and analytical, Aries will become impatient. There are many relationships between these two that can work out very well, but it is a constant challenge. Virgo desires a well-ordered existence and will not find happiness beneath Aries dictatorship. In short, the prissy Virgo cannot condone a bossy Aries.
If the Aries partner will allow Virgo space and acknowledge the inherent virtues of this Sign (intellect, precision and logic, for example), then the two can make for a dynamic relationship. The exact qualities that make this a bad team are also the ones which can make it good. In return, if Virgo will grant Aries the leadership of which this Sign is so capable, then there could easily be a relationship where one is "the brains" and the other "the brawn." Although such can work out wonderfully in terms of friendship, it is a difficult situation for intimate relationships. Nonetheless, it can work.
The bold nature of Aries will intrigue the shy, reserved Virgo for a time, but the pair have totally different ideas about what should happen in the bedroom (and elsewhere). The passions of Aries natives are impulsive and direct, but the sexuality of Virgo is more enigmatic and takes time to be revealed. In other areas, Aries is full of exciting new plans and ideas, usually insisting on being the boss. Virgo is critical and fussy, liking things to be done in the manner that Virgo wants. Virgo greatly disapproves of the Aries extravagance, while Aries considers Virgo cold and carping. Quite often, this combination ends up making war instead of love."
The last four sentences kind of sum it up.
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