Just keep it up... It's better to take the baby steps, because it is true, too fast will startle her. And... She's trying to become the person she wants to be as well.

Just saying... I think the lack of drama is a good thing. Especially for your son. And there is nothing more attractive to a woman than a GREAT Dad, who is trying to be a good man for himself and as a role model.

Hang in there John, one day at a time.

What about Cat Lady?