Maybe Sunday. Saturday she has plans and I made Dinner plans. She is pissed that I made dinner plans with an old friend I have not seen in 20 years out of respect for my wife. (friend is a female. Never any attraction, we went to school together and our parents worked with each other) she said I was going on a date.. I said no no techinically I am going to dinner with a friend. She is telling our mutual friends I am going on a date...
whatever.
so boxes on Monday maybe.
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
I'd stick to the weekend. It is more "thoughful" of you. Remember, you are giving her what she wants. No drama, don't give her any excuses not to do it. Make it easy for her.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
Good god now the woman won't leave me alone. She is now insisting the house is half hers. She is saying I can't force her out. I told her I am tired of saying it. I have let you go. I agree with yor. I want you out so leave. I said I want to go on with my life and I don't care who she is with what she does so move into your own place and be happy. I also asked her to stop tm me
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
I have already left the house temporarily. I have dropped the rope. I want her out. Like Gucci has stated we both cannot live under the same roof. ou are not able to really do what is neccessary to get a life and move on.
It is very relaxing actually to NOT be around her, and she agreed to let me have the house in a Divorce. But she has this damn fantast that I will deploy for my next job, she will remain and we will pay off all our debt?!!?! I dont care a rats ass about debt now, I just want to get on with my life! She has played me for the last time.
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
Why discuss with her? Discuss with an L! Why wait till next week for separate bank accounts? Why not now? Why wait 2 weeks for her to pack? Because: you are still holding on to the "rope".
