IDU, I don't get the impression that the issue is you needing to "try harder" in your interactions with her. It's human nature that when you attach to a new person, you push away the old one and my guess is that's what your W is doing with you.
Glad to hear you're playing regularly and not wasting a lot of energy spying.
LOL about being a "surrogate spouse". Sounds like you haven't forgotten how to flirt
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
and my guess is that's what your W is doing with you.
