Not sure where to start or end? WAW? #4

[john28]

Yeah, I'm not to the point of purusing where it garners good results. That puts pressure on her and that is not good AT ALL. Maybe if this were later on down the road pursuing would be good, but I know that it is not now.


I'm not really pursuing her right now. What I am doing is SHOWING her that I am a good man. Making her think "hmm. Maybe..." but I'm still a long long long ways off for her to finish that "maybe..." sentence. She doesn't want to be with me. She's very clear on that.

I'm just trying to be a good man and not DO things for her and show pursuit, but be there and think ahead one or two steps to do things that make me feel good about myself and at the same time shows her that I'm a good man.

She just wants to be with a good man. I have to give her that option.