Here's that quote I sent to my H this am in email... Hope it gives up some thoughts too John.
You other guys... This is not HBO... A Hallmark movie would be a GOOD ending, even if the reading is not as fun for you cynics ! Hey, maybe John will tell us about future bikini waxes if he gets that close again ?!? (I'm going to try that on my H
Anyways, here is the quote: "I think that at some point, you're going to have to just tell him (in a nice, non critical way) that courting behavior --> pursuit, romancing, seduction, are VERY important toward making you feel desired, cherished, loved, and in response, amorous and desirous of being with HIM sexually. You'll need to explain that women never tire of "the chase" (just point out to him the rows and rows of Romance novels at the local store, and the women of ALL ages who read them), and that part of keeping the romance and passion **alive** in a marriage is to never consider "the chase" done. Tell him (tongue-in-cheek) that he needs to practice the catch-and-release style of fishing when it comes to seducing you: chase you, catch you, ravish you, and then release you in order to chase again. It's a never-ending adult game."
