You're right about the two year thing. I did become "Melty Man". But I feel more in control now, and I think she has suddenly become aware of that. I could let her stay or rush her out the door. She's also in fear about the kids knowing about the OM. So, I have that. I'm going to take steps as camly and deliberately as my intuition/instincts dictate. Yesterday's "discussion" was partly in "anger" mode. Can't do that. Anxious to hear coach's input on this development.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
