Believe when I say I know it would be pursuing. In most circumstances it would be however I believe this is what she wants.
eg. I recall meeting W at D5 dance at school after I gave her the book SSM to read. I didn't want to reach out and ask how's the reading coming along b/c that too would be pursuing. Agree?
Well, in one of her emails she stated she thought I would reach out the her and intiate R talk to her. I didn't want to pursue. I failed that test.
It is now the right time to show her a sign of kindness. She even said to me today that I would do nice things then do mean things. So if I so her more consistant good behavior I'm eliminating negative action from our sitch. I think that's a good thing.
I'm trusting my gut in the case.
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