Over the past year, I have tried to rekindle our connection, but I cannot get through her emotional wall. I always ask her how her day went, how she is feeling and is there anything I can do for her. She responds with very cryptic responses detached of any emotion or engagement. I will have to get her to cut-off the OM if I hope to have any chance of getting her back. Any advice re Going Dark and would that work in this situation? Would not engaging her in any conversation get her attention or simply drive her closer to the OM?