Question about arguing

[gutwrenching]

FMV...thanks for the push! I just sent W a note, asking if she had a preference of Wed, Fri or Sat, because one of those was going to be date night. She replied right away how about Wed for a change of pace/routine. I told her consider it done, just need her to give me the babysitter list when we get home.

You really made me realize despite how much my ego/pride got hurt this weekend with the Bridges of Madison County comment and the tears over the feelings she just can't get rid of for OM...that it is really, really critical right now to get things back on track...especially with her work trip next week which is PRIME opportunity if she were to decide she needs to talk to OM about those feelings...we both don't need to go into this trip of hers on shaky grounds...

thanks for all the back and forth today