Still needing some encouragement

[kissak]

Thank you Mila...you are right...he is manipulative for sure!!!!!!!!

Im really at the end of my rope today with him. He is ticking me off to NO END!!! UGH~ I need to vent...

Ok, Im sooo sick of him being SOOOO nice to me...I mean, he is sending me texts telling me to smile and have a good day and wanting to have idle chit chat...texting me and saying "guess what", "I have email on my phone now". I was like, GOOD FOR YOU! THen he wants me to smile...I say I smile everyday...then I had it, I had to ask the question and i put it nicely...I said "not that I mind, but why are you being so nice to me now but couldnt while you were home". His reply "because I feel like it now". OK, well, then he said "i know you dont understand that" I said "no I dont" He said he really couldnt explain it to me but would stop if thats what I wanted...well, I certainly dont want him being mean to me, but MY GOSH, why werent I worth all this niceness before??? UGH. THen he goes on saying "Im sorry, hugs", then "smile", "keep smiling" and now "your smile is pretty" I honestly almost texted him and said "shut up!" I really feel like all those women he emailed, this is exactly how he treated all of them.

I have no idea how to handle this. Its really ticking me off. I know that makes no sense to some who would love to have their H/W's treat them kindly, but UGH~ I do not want to be treated like all them OW...I am NOT an OW!! I am his wife who thru him out because of stuff like this with OW...Now how do I say this to him????

OK...had to vent here before I blew up on my H. All I said to " your smile is pretty", was thanks.